Why it takes almost forever for an abusive person to change
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How quickly can an abusive
How quickly can an abusive person change? 3 months? 6 months? After a life-changing epiphany? After a really good apology? Can an abusive partner change at all?
It's kind of a trick question, because the answer is that most abusive people never do make lasting change. The mindsets about relationship roles, control, blame, and boundaries are very deep and don't just go away even if there appears to be a temporary decrease in the worst behaviors.
For the few who do manage to change, the process usually takes years, not weeks or months.
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It's kind of a trick question, because the answer is that most abusive people never do make lasting change. The mindsets about relationship roles, control, blame, and boundaries are very deep and don't just go away even if there appears to be a temporary decrease in the worst behaviors.
For the few who do manage to change, the process usually takes years, not weeks or months.
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Why the only way to help an abusive p...
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Lundy Bancroft's Book, "Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men":
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000Q9J0RO (not an affiliate or sponsored link)
Article for the 1st quote: https://lundybancroft.com/can-a-couns... (not an affiliate or sponsored link)
Book for the 2nd quote: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000Q9J0RO (not an affiliate or sponsored link)
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