Why normal advice is terrible for abusive relationships || How NOT to help an abusive person change

If you're trying to help an abusive person change, chances are you will read "The Five Love Languages," "Make It Work," or a similar book on how to fix a relationship.  Please be careful with this!  Some advice that's GREAT for normal relationships is TERRIBLE for abusive relationships.  Not only is it not helpful, but it can actually make the situation worse.

This video is about why some common relationship advice is actually terrible if you take it and apply it to an abusive relationship.  

NOTE: I do believe these authors and books are very helpful for relationships in general... this video isn't intended as a problem with the books or authors--it's to cover an easy & common mis-application of this advice that can leave people stuck in abusive relationships.

• #people_blogs
• #how_to_help_an_abusive_person_change
• #how_to_help_abusive_partner_change
• #how_to_deal_with_abusive_partner
• #how_to_help_an_abusive_partner_change
• #can_abusers_change_their_behavior
• #can_abusers_change_their_behavior_with_therapy
• #domestic_violence
• #narcissistic_abuse
• #emotional_abuse
• #abusive_relationships
• #emotional_abuse_in_relationships
• #how_to_fix_an_abusive_relationship
• #how_to_fix_an_emotionally_abusive_relationship