Marriage After 40 Years Old | Dating Advice for Women | Mindset for Finding Love After 40
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Today, I’ll discuss marriage after
Today, I’ll discuss marriage after 40 years old, dating advice for women, and the best mindset for finding love after 40. Hello, this is Tisa from Late Bloomer. Welcome back to my channel. I want to give a life update and talk about my first marriage after 40 years old. I went on a journey to find someone special, and I thought it was important to discuss and share my mindset before meeting my husband, talk about the wedding ceremony, the experience of eloping, and how life is going now. I know it's been about two or three years since I've posted a video, but I'm back with a life update!
As you can see from the title, I'm married now! It's been almost a year, so I've been busy. I wanted to come back on here to do this video because I kept getting comments from my 'It's Just Lunch' video from 2019 where people were hoping that I would find someone special, and that's pretty much because of what happened with that company. So actually, my husband is the white Hispanic guy that I mentioned earlier in my two Match.com update videos from 2019, so you can go back and check those out if you like. But before I get into how dating was with my now husband, I want to talk about my MINDSET before meeting him.
People are marrying later in their lives. So, if you're thinking of marrying in your forties, you're not alone. There is no such thing as the ideal time to meet your romantic spouse in order to be successful in love, and you are not a failure if you haven't married by a specific age. If all of your friends are married and have children, and you haven't found the one, you might be concerned about the stigma of marrying later in life. However, there is no right or wrong moment to marry. It's the ideal time to marry when you've found your soulmate, the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. At any age, you can meet that individual. Some people marry their high school sweethearts, while others date later in life. There are benefits and drawbacks to marrying in your forties.
One benefit of marrying in your forties is that you have more life experience. You've experienced the highs and lows of life by the time you're in your forties. You've seen how happy marriage and children can be. You've experienced the agony of illness and bereavement. Life experience aids in determining who is the best match. Because they haven't yet encountered such extremes, those who marry young don't necessarily consider the implications of "for better, for worse." When you're in your 40s, however, you've had enough experience to find someone who will be a true companion through it all.
Another advantage of marrying in your forties is that you are more aware of who you are and what you want. Being over 40 brings with it a certain level of wisdom. You've figured out who you are and are comfortable with it. Gone are the days when you had to pretend to be someone you weren't just to impress people. You have high standards and know exactly what you want (and don't want) in life and in a companion, and you won't settle for anything less. You've already matured into your own person by the time you're getting married in your 40s. Because you've already done your growing and changing, you don't have to be as concerned about drifting away from your relationship.
Finally, it's becoming the rule rather than the exception. Even if it appears that everyone around you is married, this is not usually the truth. Unlike our parents and grandparents, Americans are marrying later in life, and the statistics support this assertion. Half of 21-year-olds and 90% of 30-year-olds had been married at least once in the 1960s. By 2020, however, only around 9% of people under the age of 21 were married, and just half of those under the age of 30 were married. It's difficult to forecast what the numbers will be in the next generations.
Please watch my videos linked below to hear my experience dating my husband and life now. If you enjoyed this video about marriage after 40 years old, dating advice for women, and the best mindset for finding love after 40, please remember to like, share, subscribe and leave a comment if you have any questions, suggestions, or feedback. We hope to see you here again soon!
@tisalatebloomer
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As you can see from the title, I'm married now! It's been almost a year, so I've been busy. I wanted to come back on here to do this video because I kept getting comments from my 'It's Just Lunch' video from 2019 where people were hoping that I would find someone special, and that's pretty much because of what happened with that company. So actually, my husband is the white Hispanic guy that I mentioned earlier in my two Match.com update videos from 2019, so you can go back and check those out if you like. But before I get into how dating was with my now husband, I want to talk about my MINDSET before meeting him.
People are marrying later in their lives. So, if you're thinking of marrying in your forties, you're not alone. There is no such thing as the ideal time to meet your romantic spouse in order to be successful in love, and you are not a failure if you haven't married by a specific age. If all of your friends are married and have children, and you haven't found the one, you might be concerned about the stigma of marrying later in life. However, there is no right or wrong moment to marry. It's the ideal time to marry when you've found your soulmate, the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. At any age, you can meet that individual. Some people marry their high school sweethearts, while others date later in life. There are benefits and drawbacks to marrying in your forties.
One benefit of marrying in your forties is that you have more life experience. You've experienced the highs and lows of life by the time you're in your forties. You've seen how happy marriage and children can be. You've experienced the agony of illness and bereavement. Life experience aids in determining who is the best match. Because they haven't yet encountered such extremes, those who marry young don't necessarily consider the implications of "for better, for worse." When you're in your 40s, however, you've had enough experience to find someone who will be a true companion through it all.
Another advantage of marrying in your forties is that you are more aware of who you are and what you want. Being over 40 brings with it a certain level of wisdom. You've figured out who you are and are comfortable with it. Gone are the days when you had to pretend to be someone you weren't just to impress people. You have high standards and know exactly what you want (and don't want) in life and in a companion, and you won't settle for anything less. You've already matured into your own person by the time you're getting married in your 40s. Because you've already done your growing and changing, you don't have to be as concerned about drifting away from your relationship.
Finally, it's becoming the rule rather than the exception. Even if it appears that everyone around you is married, this is not usually the truth. Unlike our parents and grandparents, Americans are marrying later in life, and the statistics support this assertion. Half of 21-year-olds and 90% of 30-year-olds had been married at least once in the 1960s. By 2020, however, only around 9% of people under the age of 21 were married, and just half of those under the age of 30 were married. It's difficult to forecast what the numbers will be in the next generations.
Please watch my videos linked below to hear my experience dating my husband and life now. If you enjoyed this video about marriage after 40 years old, dating advice for women, and the best mindset for finding love after 40, please remember to like, share, subscribe and leave a comment if you have any questions, suggestions, or feedback. We hope to see you here again soon!
@tisalatebloomer
We Later Married | Match.com Update no. 1 Match.com Success Story | Match.com U...
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#marriage #marriageafter40 #marriageover40 #howimetmyhusband
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