Trust In Relationships & Dating (Operating from Secure Attachment)
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“Trust In Relationships & Dating
“Trust In Relationships & Dating (Operating from Secure Attachment)”
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This video, I am I'm gonna talk about the power of trust in relationships and dating. I will be joined by Antia Boyd from Magnetize the Man Summit where she interviewed me a little while ago and these are three video clips that are excerpts from that summit.
This video further talks about trust and dimensionalized it in a way that perhaps will have you seen the benefit of it and the power of it when it comes to creating a relationship with a man or anybody else in your life.
KEY POINTS:
* When you're unable to trust and you're unable to be able to give this trust, you have no power to create a relationship.
* Because trusting takes risk and to create a relationship it takes risk. So, in the opposite what it does when you don't trust is it creates insecurity.
* It creates insecurity in you.
* In fact, distrusting is the foundation of being insecure or avoidant attachment style.
* If you're wanting to move more into relating in the way of having a secure attachment (if you've heard of Attachment theory), the foundation is trust.
* Seeing the benefits of trust and learning how to put yourself in situations where you can trust and be able to see the people that are trustworthy versus the ones that aren't.
QUESTION: How do I know when I trust a man? Where do I even start?
The most amount of suffering that happens in relationships happens from not allowing yourself to be fully in. It happens from not allowing your true self to come into the interactions even in the beginning stages of dating. It happens from not being able to speak your truth in relationships with another person.
And so, how I see trust just to define it in the background of how it relates to relationship is it really is the lifeblood of what makes relationship work. Because in order to make a relationship work there's a certain amount of risk that one must put themselves in. If you are going on a date, there's a certain amount of risk that you’re putting, and you might risk rejection. You might risk wasting your time. You might risk having your heart broken.
And so, in order to make anything grow in life it takes some risk, and what enables you to take risk? What enables you to take risk is there's a certain level of trust there that you are going to be able to do this, that you deserve this, that there is something that’s possible that can be created.
What happens when we trust? Why is trust so important?
* When you can trust in dating, in men, in life, it allows you to show up as attractive.
* It allows you to show up in your full expression of playfulness.
* It allows you to open your heart and for people to see who you really are so they can determine whether they are compatible and want a relationship with you.
* Trust is what allows you to reveal those parts of yourself, those vulnerable parts of yourself that people connect with.
* Trust also allows you to receive another person's gifts fully as well.
* And so, on the other side of things if you're not trusting if there is this kind of guilty until proven innocent mentality that that you have in your dating life, how people and the impact that it will have on men is that they we'll see you as someone that it almost takes too much work. It comes off as almost it's this veneer of baggage that is just it's too hard to break through. It can also impact a man where he may feel like it's just too much of an uphill battle and he will experience a sense of inadequacy when he's with you, whether he articulates that out loud or not.
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