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In this professional communication training video, communication trainer Dan O'Connor discusses: Ambush Meetings: What to do when it happens to you. Do you ever feel that you're being ambushed or being ganged up on or trapped with the line of questioning that's being thrown at you, whether it's at work or home?
Find out how to answer that so that you never feel trapped again. So here's how I would answer a question that I'm not comfortable answering.
I got this question from a viewer who asked basically, what do I do? My boss likes to call me into his office with no notice. And usually there's somebody else there and they attack me. And I feel like I'm being ambushed. And they're asking me real rapid fire questions they think they have the answer to. And they're trying to kind of trap me and I get tongue tied and nervous. What should I be doing? Here's what I would say to that. Remember, as a communicator, it is always your right, always, no matter if it's at work, at home or wherever, if you do not feel comfortable answering a question, if you don't feel comfortable in the moment, if you suspect as though someone's ganging up on you or that you are being ambushed or that somebody is asking you a challenge question.
Remember, we talked about those in some of my classes, if you were with me on those. When you're asked things or asked to participate in conversations in which you do not feel comfortable, remember, it is always your right to say. I'm going to need some time to think about that, to decide how I feel or, you know, I'm not sure how I feel about that. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable answering that right now. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable engaging with you right now on the subject. I'm not comfortable telling you what went on because I can't recall it at the moment. And it is always OK. In fact, it's very effective to say why, if you feel uncomfortable, tell people that if you're uncomfortable, I'm making you uncomfortable with their line of questioning. I like to refer to things like congressional hearings or when I watch a good trial on television, C-SPAN. That's my that's my idea of a good time. And I see people answer Congress sometimes by saying things such as, you know, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with your line of questioning. #ambushmeeting #ambushed #ambushedatwork
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Make sure to check out Dan's website https://www.danoconnortraining.com/ for your free book and/or tutorial, and examine the many training programs you'll find there as part of his VIP pack. There are courses on:
-Getting unstuck and moving ahead in your career
-How to gain the respect and acknowledgement you know you deserve
-Communication skills for the telephone
-How to deal with difficult people at work--notably bullies, gossips, and people who make inappropriate comments
-How to be seen as the competent professional you know yourself to be
-How to approach your job with confidence and earn the respect of coworkers
-Job interview skills
-How to deliver bad news to a customer
-Communication Skills for Leaders
And many many more
You can contact Dan at: [email protected]
https://tinyurl.com/ashfla FLASH SALE 50% OFF My COMPLETE COMMUNICATION COURSE
To become a VIP, go to danoconnortraining.com/store
In this professional communication training video, communication trainer Dan O'Connor discusses: Ambush Meetings: What to do when it happens to you. Do you ever feel that you're being ambushed or being ganged up on or trapped with the line of questioning that's being thrown at you, whether it's at work or home?
Find out how to answer that so that you never feel trapped again. So here's how I would answer a question that I'm not comfortable answering.
I got this question from a viewer who asked basically, what do I do? My boss likes to call me into his office with no notice. And usually there's somebody else there and they attack me. And I feel like I'm being ambushed. And they're asking me real rapid fire questions they think they have the answer to. And they're trying to kind of trap me and I get tongue tied and nervous. What should I be doing? Here's what I would say to that. Remember, as a communicator, it is always your right, always, no matter if it's at work, at home or wherever, if you do not feel comfortable answering a question, if you don't feel comfortable in the moment, if you suspect as though someone's ganging up on you or that you are being ambushed or that somebody is asking you a challenge question.
Remember, we talked about those in some of my classes, if you were with me on those. When you're asked things or asked to participate in conversations in which you do not feel comfortable, remember, it is always your right to say. I'm going to need some time to think about that, to decide how I feel or, you know, I'm not sure how I feel about that. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable answering that right now. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable engaging with you right now on the subject. I'm not comfortable telling you what went on because I can't recall it at the moment. And it is always OK. In fact, it's very effective to say why, if you feel uncomfortable, tell people that if you're uncomfortable, I'm making you uncomfortable with their line of questioning. I like to refer to things like congressional hearings or when I watch a good trial on television, C-SPAN. That's my that's my idea of a good time. And I see people answer Congress sometimes by saying things such as, you know, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with your line of questioning. #ambushmeeting #ambushed #ambushedatwork
YOUTUBE CHANNEL (Please Subscribe): https://goo.gl/VJdWKi
Make sure to check out Dan's website https://www.danoconnortraining.com/ for your free book and/or tutorial, and examine the many training programs you'll find there as part of his VIP pack. There are courses on:
-Getting unstuck and moving ahead in your career
-How to gain the respect and acknowledgement you know you deserve
-Communication skills for the telephone
-How to deal with difficult people at work--notably bullies, gossips, and people who make inappropriate comments
-How to be seen as the competent professional you know yourself to be
-How to approach your job with confidence and earn the respect of coworkers
-Job interview skills
-How to deliver bad news to a customer
-Communication Skills for Leaders
And many many more
You can contact Dan at: [email protected]
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