HOW TO LIE LIKE A PRO
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Research shows we are born
Research shows we are born liars, but we don't naturally become expert liars so many are easily caught. But lying can be improved with practice and skill. Here are top tips to deceive people according to expert liars. This information is to help you detect lies, not to practice it yourself. Honestly.
Lie ethically.
This is also known as paltering. It is the third kind of lie after omission, which is revealing only partial truth, and commission-which is telling something that isnt. Politicians call it the ethical lie, because it is a way of getting away from hard questions by giving out other facts, instead of actually answering the question itself. For example, a reporter asks a politician - if he is involved with corruption. The senator answers "I am not a part of any illegal financial deals". But the truth is he was involved with a shady transaction a few months ago, but technically he isnt when is answered the question.
Believe your lies.
You can never make a good lie if you don't believe it. Good liars enjoy the process of lying and thus watching people play their games. On the other hand bad liars wanna get over the lie as soon as possible as not to get caught, because They feel uncomfortable saying something that is against their belief. In the end they are caught because they cannot conceal being uneasy.
Base it on truth.
It is much easier for a person to believe something that could actually happen, both for the liar and the one being lied to. For example you want to extend your week-end so you file for a leave on a friday. So if youre wearing correctional glasses you might text to your boss saying "I cant go today because my glasses are broken and I cant see anything until its fixed". if youre lucky and your boss is caught by surprise and gullible enough you might get away with a lie that is quite reasonable and easy to remember.
Keep it simple.
Do not give unnecessary details. If you woke up late and you wanna lie about a broken tire, do not include how it happened and how pissed you were. Bad liars are caught because they exhibit abnormal behaviors. While expert liars tell lies while showing normal behavior.
Tell a cold lie.
Inexperienced liars tend to act abnormally and over act by being fidgety, over smiling, and doing unnecessary gestures. If you think youre a bad liar and you wanna look confident, act detached - so if you over act you can leave a small room for error so you would still look normal.
Closeness.
When we lie we want to distance ourselves away from the person we are deceiving because we feel uncomfortable and uneasy. This behavior is often noticeable when we are lying to a friend or romantic partner, who we are usually physically close with and touch intimately. So if you wanna appear believable, maintain physical closeness or be touchy as you would normally do.
Lie Management.
Only lie when it is necessary and you have something to gain. This is how to manage your lies. Lie less so you can remember which ones to keep. This is how you maintain consistency. Bad liars are caught because they commit inconsistencies with their stories. This happens when they tell a lie to too many people. Only share the lie to someone when it's really important and you have something to gain from it.
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Lie ethically.
This is also known as paltering. It is the third kind of lie after omission, which is revealing only partial truth, and commission-which is telling something that isnt. Politicians call it the ethical lie, because it is a way of getting away from hard questions by giving out other facts, instead of actually answering the question itself. For example, a reporter asks a politician - if he is involved with corruption. The senator answers "I am not a part of any illegal financial deals". But the truth is he was involved with a shady transaction a few months ago, but technically he isnt when is answered the question.
Believe your lies.
You can never make a good lie if you don't believe it. Good liars enjoy the process of lying and thus watching people play their games. On the other hand bad liars wanna get over the lie as soon as possible as not to get caught, because They feel uncomfortable saying something that is against their belief. In the end they are caught because they cannot conceal being uneasy.
Base it on truth.
It is much easier for a person to believe something that could actually happen, both for the liar and the one being lied to. For example you want to extend your week-end so you file for a leave on a friday. So if youre wearing correctional glasses you might text to your boss saying "I cant go today because my glasses are broken and I cant see anything until its fixed". if youre lucky and your boss is caught by surprise and gullible enough you might get away with a lie that is quite reasonable and easy to remember.
Keep it simple.
Do not give unnecessary details. If you woke up late and you wanna lie about a broken tire, do not include how it happened and how pissed you were. Bad liars are caught because they exhibit abnormal behaviors. While expert liars tell lies while showing normal behavior.
Tell a cold lie.
Inexperienced liars tend to act abnormally and over act by being fidgety, over smiling, and doing unnecessary gestures. If you think youre a bad liar and you wanna look confident, act detached - so if you over act you can leave a small room for error so you would still look normal.
Closeness.
When we lie we want to distance ourselves away from the person we are deceiving because we feel uncomfortable and uneasy. This behavior is often noticeable when we are lying to a friend or romantic partner, who we are usually physically close with and touch intimately. So if you wanna appear believable, maintain physical closeness or be touchy as you would normally do.
Lie Management.
Only lie when it is necessary and you have something to gain. This is how to manage your lies. Lie less so you can remember which ones to keep. This is how you maintain consistency. Bad liars are caught because they commit inconsistencies with their stories. This happens when they tell a lie to too many people. Only share the lie to someone when it's really important and you have something to gain from it.
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