COMO FUE, FUE PERFECTO 🩵 ARIANUCHIS entrevista a VALENTINA QUINTERO por PRIMERA VEZ 🎙️
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I proposed to Arianna to
I proposed to Arianna to make a chapter of our mother-daughter life. It is true that we share a lot of our experiences on Instagram and in her letters, but never in a complete conversation and much less on my channel. It's our way of celebrating Mother's Day with you.
My daughter, who is the thoughtful one, came up with the topic. She suggested doing an interview with me about the mother I was. What motivated me? How did I live that experience? Because the truth was always the vision of her as a daughter. We had never talked about my anxieties or my euphoria as a mother and so we did.
I got married when I was 19 because it was what many of us did at that time. Now that I think about it it must have been to get out of my house - which was a joy - but with an absolutely rigid mother. An example. Once I was married in a civil ceremony, they didn't let me go camping on the beach with a group of friends until I left my house with a veil and crown. I didn't wear a veil, but well... although the plan was not to have children immediately, because we were both studying, I went crazy and at 20 I swore I was pregnant. I had never told Arianna that. My emotion and my tenderness. After fertility treatment, an emergency operation to remove an ovary, another operation to clear blocked tubes, hormones to ovulate... 8 years passed from the marriage until Arianna was born and a year later the divorce came. My motherhood was infinite anguish. Her father was absent in every sense. I turned work into an obsession because we didn't have money. I barely had enough for rent, daycare, and some food. Looking for extra jobs everywhere. Only responsible for that creature that only depended on me and that's it.
Arianna was listening to me and started crying. She felt so unfair in my complaints about my obsession with work and what she so often felt was abandonment. But there was no other option. It was that or live under the Guanábano bridge and beg for alms. I wanted her to have at least what I had and if possible more. That's why he convinced her daily of the benefits of being her only daughter. She didn't feel capable of going through that mortification again.
It was a deep conversation. Liberating. Close. From the most absolute understanding. And the truth is that today we are what we are because we were what we were. There are no complaints of any kind. We love each other. We can talk about anything. I hear my daughter. I believe him. She is my greatest and most accurate advisor, because she reflects and studies, I am pure intuition and adore. She contains me. All her life they told her that she came into the world to take care of her mother. And well, as I always say, if she were born again she would want to be Arianna's daughter.
SUBSCRIBE: / @valendeviaje
Instagram: Instagram: valendeviaje
📌Director/DP:
Branimir Caleta - @caletadp
📌Journalist/General Production:
Valentina Quintero - @valendeviaje
📌Digital Media Manager:
Adeimar Bastidas - @adeimarbl
📌Sound and Drone Operator:
Edward Nogales - @nogalesrob
📌Post production
Gustavo Mendoza - @el.tasto
Alexander Ramirez @damianjr23
📌Graphic Design
Stephanye Cuellar - @stephanye._
📌Motion Graphics
Andrés Ungaro - @gazoo69
📌YouTube Optimization Team:
Barbara Mongou - @barbaramongou
Ricardo Miranda - @popinteractive
My daughter, who is the thoughtful one, came up with the topic. She suggested doing an interview with me about the mother I was. What motivated me? How did I live that experience? Because the truth was always the vision of her as a daughter. We had never talked about my anxieties or my euphoria as a mother and so we did.
I got married when I was 19 because it was what many of us did at that time. Now that I think about it it must have been to get out of my house - which was a joy - but with an absolutely rigid mother. An example. Once I was married in a civil ceremony, they didn't let me go camping on the beach with a group of friends until I left my house with a veil and crown. I didn't wear a veil, but well... although the plan was not to have children immediately, because we were both studying, I went crazy and at 20 I swore I was pregnant. I had never told Arianna that. My emotion and my tenderness. After fertility treatment, an emergency operation to remove an ovary, another operation to clear blocked tubes, hormones to ovulate... 8 years passed from the marriage until Arianna was born and a year later the divorce came. My motherhood was infinite anguish. Her father was absent in every sense. I turned work into an obsession because we didn't have money. I barely had enough for rent, daycare, and some food. Looking for extra jobs everywhere. Only responsible for that creature that only depended on me and that's it.
Arianna was listening to me and started crying. She felt so unfair in my complaints about my obsession with work and what she so often felt was abandonment. But there was no other option. It was that or live under the Guanábano bridge and beg for alms. I wanted her to have at least what I had and if possible more. That's why he convinced her daily of the benefits of being her only daughter. She didn't feel capable of going through that mortification again.
It was a deep conversation. Liberating. Close. From the most absolute understanding. And the truth is that today we are what we are because we were what we were. There are no complaints of any kind. We love each other. We can talk about anything. I hear my daughter. I believe him. She is my greatest and most accurate advisor, because she reflects and studies, I am pure intuition and adore. She contains me. All her life they told her that she came into the world to take care of her mother. And well, as I always say, if she were born again she would want to be Arianna's daughter.
SUBSCRIBE: / @valendeviaje
Instagram: Instagram: valendeviaje
📌Director/DP:
Branimir Caleta - @caletadp
📌Journalist/General Production:
Valentina Quintero - @valendeviaje
📌Digital Media Manager:
Adeimar Bastidas - @adeimarbl
📌Sound and Drone Operator:
Edward Nogales - @nogalesrob
📌Post production
Gustavo Mendoza - @el.tasto
Alexander Ramirez @damianjr23
📌Graphic Design
Stephanye Cuellar - @stephanye._
📌Motion Graphics
Andrés Ungaro - @gazoo69
📌YouTube Optimization Team:
Barbara Mongou - @barbaramongou
Ricardo Miranda - @popinteractive
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