My adult 'estranged' alienated child contacted me, says your behaviour is the problem. What to do?

The estrangement I'm talking about is not where the parent was abusive, but where the child was initially alienated from the parent, and at times the parent would react to the denegration and loss of parental recognition and involvement. The child would be allowed to treat the parent this way, and would be given a false narrative of the parent. The child looks for any sign of aggression, and over-inflates this as the parent's baseline character rather than recognising the reactive ness to abusive behaviour towards the parent. This video. What it looked like when my estranged alienated child finally contacted me years later. What do I do? How does it feel? This video explains when my eldest estranged alienated child contacted me after three years no contact. As a parent, what do you do when your adult alienated estranged child contacts you and tells you your behaviour is the problem? If you need to reach out to talk about this (I know how hard and lonely this is, as an alienated adult child, alienated parent / father, and narcissistic abuse victim / survivor): [email protected] www.linkedin.com/in/jackgoodings www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100078447752788 Support helpline 020 3778 1171 Opt 2 emotional / Opt 4 legal Mon-Thur 6-9pm Visit PA Awareness for more information, Charity registration:1187738: www.paawareness.co.uk PAA Facebook: www.facebook.com/PAAwarenessUK PAA YouTube: @paawarenessuk Charlie McCready is also available for parental alienation coaching: charliemccready.com/ #estrangement #parentalalienation #estranged