10 Signs Of A Codependent Relationship: #3/Losing Self #codependency #codependencyrecovery
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In this series of video
In this series of video shorts (#3/10)
I highlight the Most Common Signs Of A Codependent Relationship.
We continue this Series with #3: LOSING SELF.
In a codependent relationship the "Giver" loses focus of who they truly are meaning they move their boundaries and they stifle their voice and they do so much for the other person that they eventually lose touch with who they really are.
Think of it like this: excessive focus on someone else takes that important focus away from you. The most common way this happens is moving your boundaries... to make the other person happy, saying things that you normally wouldn't say, changing your daily routine and what you need to do and multitasking to make sure that you get their obligations completed before yours. This is why codependent "Givers" can become resentful and stressed.
A codependent relationship looks like this: The "Giver" is usually an low self-esteem overachiever and feels rewarded when they help someone. They look for someone that they perceive to need help. Enter the "Taker" of the codependent relationship. This person is usually an underachiever... could be an alcoholic or an addict, could be someone that is disabled and manipulative. Whatever the type, they are perceived by the codependent "Giver" as needing help.
Codependent behaviors from the "Giver" to the "Taker" can look like making sure they get to work on time, paying their bills, compensating for them if they made a mistake and so on.
Regardless of the behavior, the codependent "Giver" at the end of the day will be stressed and will be hurrying to get their obligations done as the "Taker" will be rested and thinking about what their next need is.
Full length video with all 10 Signs Of A Codependent Relationship can be learned by watching this video: "10 Telltale Signs Of A Codependent Relationship". In this video, I also share a simple definition of codependency.
10 Telltale Signs Of A Codependent Re...
By knowing about Codependency and the 10 clear indicators of a codependent relationship, you can assess your relationship, develop healthy boundaries and thus l, take back the power of you! Determining if you are in a codependent relationship allows you to determine your boundaries in a relationship and begin the process of codependency recovery! You deserve happiness! You deserve to put yourself first and develop healthy boundaries for mutually rewarding relationships instead of codependent relationships!
If you're thinking of leaving a codependent relationship, this additional video will help you prepare for the break-up conversation. By viewing, you will learn peace of mind, reassurance and courage to know that you deserve a mutually rewarding relationship: The Best Way To Break-Up With A Codep...
Living most of my life being codependent and now a survivor for several years, my aim is to empower you in nurturing a healthier you and more balanced relationships! Codependency recovery can be yours!
You matter!
Thanks for watching ❤️
For more information on codependency and topics that are shared from members in a confidential group, please check out my Facebook group, The Codependency Support Group.
https://m.facebook.com/groups/codepen...
#codependent #codependentrelationships
#boundaries #codependencyrecovery #unhealthyrelationships #emotionalwellbeing #mentalhealth #selflove #selfcare #toxicrelationships #healingjourney #selfworth #selfesteem #emotionaldependency
I highlight the Most Common Signs Of A Codependent Relationship.
We continue this Series with #3: LOSING SELF.
In a codependent relationship the "Giver" loses focus of who they truly are meaning they move their boundaries and they stifle their voice and they do so much for the other person that they eventually lose touch with who they really are.
Think of it like this: excessive focus on someone else takes that important focus away from you. The most common way this happens is moving your boundaries... to make the other person happy, saying things that you normally wouldn't say, changing your daily routine and what you need to do and multitasking to make sure that you get their obligations completed before yours. This is why codependent "Givers" can become resentful and stressed.
A codependent relationship looks like this: The "Giver" is usually an low self-esteem overachiever and feels rewarded when they help someone. They look for someone that they perceive to need help. Enter the "Taker" of the codependent relationship. This person is usually an underachiever... could be an alcoholic or an addict, could be someone that is disabled and manipulative. Whatever the type, they are perceived by the codependent "Giver" as needing help.
Codependent behaviors from the "Giver" to the "Taker" can look like making sure they get to work on time, paying their bills, compensating for them if they made a mistake and so on.
Regardless of the behavior, the codependent "Giver" at the end of the day will be stressed and will be hurrying to get their obligations done as the "Taker" will be rested and thinking about what their next need is.
Full length video with all 10 Signs Of A Codependent Relationship can be learned by watching this video: "10 Telltale Signs Of A Codependent Relationship". In this video, I also share a simple definition of codependency.
10 Telltale Signs Of A Codependent Re...
By knowing about Codependency and the 10 clear indicators of a codependent relationship, you can assess your relationship, develop healthy boundaries and thus l, take back the power of you! Determining if you are in a codependent relationship allows you to determine your boundaries in a relationship and begin the process of codependency recovery! You deserve happiness! You deserve to put yourself first and develop healthy boundaries for mutually rewarding relationships instead of codependent relationships!
If you're thinking of leaving a codependent relationship, this additional video will help you prepare for the break-up conversation. By viewing, you will learn peace of mind, reassurance and courage to know that you deserve a mutually rewarding relationship: The Best Way To Break-Up With A Codep...
Living most of my life being codependent and now a survivor for several years, my aim is to empower you in nurturing a healthier you and more balanced relationships! Codependency recovery can be yours!
You matter!
Thanks for watching ❤️
For more information on codependency and topics that are shared from members in a confidential group, please check out my Facebook group, The Codependency Support Group.
https://m.facebook.com/groups/codepen...
#codependent #codependentrelationships
#boundaries #codependencyrecovery #unhealthyrelationships #emotionalwellbeing #mentalhealth #selflove #selfcare #toxicrelationships #healingjourney #selfworth #selfesteem #emotionaldependency
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