Unforgiving Narcissist Hoovers to Revenge, Holds Grudges
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Transgressions in shared fantasy space
Transgressions in shared fantasy space are mostly arbitrary, inconsistent, and imaginary.
Relationship management tool: reflects changes in perception of perpetrator and of self.
Reconstitution of grandiosity: Omnipotence: Inadmissibility of losing or being outwitted.
Reconstitution of grandiosity: Omniscient Infallibility: always right.
Righteous, anankastic indignation for moral injury (high moral ground, morality play): establishing blame, irreversibility of harm or damage.
Restorative justice and equity (reparations, restitution, amends).
Punitive vengeance: vindication.
Reasserting control.
Deterrence (behavior modification) and reputational costs of forgiving (appearing weak and vulnerable).
External solution to narcissistic mortification: severe consequences, part of pattern, inexcusable, immoral, gratuitous (mean, cruel), victim loses more than perpetrator gains (magnitude gap), disproportional.
Rumination, obsession, victimhood.
Grudge Theory (Roy Baumeister, Julie Exline, Kristin Sommer)
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Relationship management tool: reflects changes in perception of perpetrator and of self.
Reconstitution of grandiosity: Omnipotence: Inadmissibility of losing or being outwitted.
Reconstitution of grandiosity: Omniscient Infallibility: always right.
Righteous, anankastic indignation for moral injury (high moral ground, morality play): establishing blame, irreversibility of harm or damage.
Restorative justice and equity (reparations, restitution, amends).
Punitive vengeance: vindication.
Reasserting control.
Deterrence (behavior modification) and reputational costs of forgiving (appearing weak and vulnerable).
External solution to narcissistic mortification: severe consequences, part of pattern, inexcusable, immoral, gratuitous (mean, cruel), victim loses more than perpetrator gains (magnitude gap), disproportional.
Rumination, obsession, victimhood.
Grudge Theory (Roy Baumeister, Julie Exline, Kristin Sommer)
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...
5 ماه پیش
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