Rabbi Mark Wildes | Neo-Hassidic? Rationalist? Next Generation Kiruv & How to Fix Yeshiva Education

• Episode 42: Rabbi Mark Wildes "Kiruv for the Next Generation"

• Rabbi Mark Wildes shares his journey in Kiruv and delves into the reasons behind the lack of engagement of many Jews with Judaism. He argues that a lack of proper Jewish education is a major contributor to this and that many people are not turning away from their faith, but simply never had it instilled in them in the first place. What can Ashkenazim and Sephardim learn from each other in terms of how we deal with these matters? Rabbi Wildes sheds light on the current state of Kiruv, which is largely Haredi or Haredi-lite, and acknowledges that it may not have mass appeal. He makes the case for why there is no one-size-fits-all solution and that some people may be drawn to spirituality or neo-Hassidism, while others prefer a more rational approach. The Rabbi challenges the notion that mysticism is effective for everyone and highlights the importance of teaching fundamentals, such as having a better understanding of the God we worship and basic philosophy. He also discusses the difficulties faced by the post-Kiruv Baal Teshuvah who eventually loses his/her initial inspiration. We explore the notion of whether blind faith is even a Jewish idea, as we analyze the Midrash about Abraham in the Fiery Furnace. The Rabbi engages us in a thought-provoking conversation about the appeal of Judaism to modern, secular individuals and the why the suppression of technology, information, and secular education sometimes plays a role in the frum world. He emphasizes the importance of substance over fluff and critiques the use of fearmongering in Kiruv, which we point out is largely a Sephardic phenomenon. Regarding this issue, we draw lessons from the story of Eliyahu HaNavi and how it teaches us about the importance of cultivating a thoughtful and effective approach to outreach and inspiration.

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• Bio: Before becoming a rabbi, Mark Wildes was on track to become part of the family legal legacy as a high-profile attorney. He got his JD from the Cardozo School of Law and a Masters in International Affairs from Columbia University. While on this track, Mark was involved in religious studies at Yeshiva University and worked on his other passion to help “Refusenik” Jews obtain emigration rights when the Soviet Union tried to ban them from leaving. During this time, Mark somehow also became active in reaching out to NYC’s less affiliated Jewish community. He was troubled by the growing number of young people distancing themselves from their Jewish heritage and the community as a whole. So, while in graduate school, he ran an outreach program in his native Forest Hills, Queens and became ordained as a Rabbi, not really knowing which way he would go professionally. Rabbi Wildes founded MJE in his mother’s memory (an organization which today draws in over 20,000 attendees at its events each year to its three sites in Manhattan), mimicking the special atmosphere Ruth Wildes created with her boundless hospitality with an ever-expanding Shabbat table.

• Here's Rabbi Wilde's incredible organization: https://www.jewishexperience.org

• Check out his YouTube Channel: @markwildesmje

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