Separating-Individuating from Borderline Partner
38.9 هزار بار بازدید -
پارسال
-
Mirror image of separating-individuating from
Mirror image of separating-individuating from the narcissist in the wake of narcissistic abuse
Engulfment anxiety and dependency cause the borderline to cast you as an abuser
Admit your contributions as an intimate partner (mate selection, for example, or savior-rescuer complex)
I am not an abuser: your authentic voice, get rid of guilt and shame
Borderlines parentify: Get rid of the maternal function in the shared fantasy
Hand over ownership, regulation
Separation: silence your voice in her mind, enhance her authentic voice
What about individuation?
Once your voice is silenced, both external regulator (“abuser”) and savior, mother and child are gone.
Authentic voice is disembodied.
Embodying.
Individuation requires mind-body work: owning your voice also by connecting it to your body.
Reconstituting three lost functions: self-mothering (self-love), self-saving (agency), choosing and affirming life (negating depression, anxiety, catastrophizing, and ANTS)
Watch Take These 4 Steps BEFORE Therapy for Narcissistic Abuse
Take These 4 Steps BEFORE Therapy for...
Watch Love Yourself: Here’s How - or, The Four Pillars of Self-love Love Yourself: Here’s How - or, The F...
Watch Decode, Heal Your Mind with IPAM (Intrapsychic Activation Model)
Decode, Heal Your Mind with IPAM (Int...
Watch Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voice? Do THIS!
Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voic...
Watch Take Your Life Back, Own It
Take Your Life Back, Own It
Watch Go to Your Desert, Listen to Your Inner Silence
Go to Your Desert, Listen to Your Inn...
Watch How to Individuate, Heal from Narcissistic Abuse
How to Individuate, Heal from Narciss...
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...
Engulfment anxiety and dependency cause the borderline to cast you as an abuser
Admit your contributions as an intimate partner (mate selection, for example, or savior-rescuer complex)
I am not an abuser: your authentic voice, get rid of guilt and shame
Borderlines parentify: Get rid of the maternal function in the shared fantasy
Hand over ownership, regulation
Separation: silence your voice in her mind, enhance her authentic voice
What about individuation?
Once your voice is silenced, both external regulator (“abuser”) and savior, mother and child are gone.
Authentic voice is disembodied.
Embodying.
Individuation requires mind-body work: owning your voice also by connecting it to your body.
Reconstituting three lost functions: self-mothering (self-love), self-saving (agency), choosing and affirming life (negating depression, anxiety, catastrophizing, and ANTS)
Watch Take These 4 Steps BEFORE Therapy for Narcissistic Abuse
Take These 4 Steps BEFORE Therapy for...
Watch Love Yourself: Here’s How - or, The Four Pillars of Self-love Love Yourself: Here’s How - or, The F...
Watch Decode, Heal Your Mind with IPAM (Intrapsychic Activation Model)
Decode, Heal Your Mind with IPAM (Int...
Watch Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voice? Do THIS!
Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voic...
Watch Take Your Life Back, Own It
Take Your Life Back, Own It
Watch Go to Your Desert, Listen to Your Inner Silence
Go to Your Desert, Listen to Your Inn...
Watch How to Individuate, Heal from Narcissistic Abuse
How to Individuate, Heal from Narciss...
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...
پارسال
در تاریخ 1402/01/12 منتشر شده
است.
38,914
بـار بازدید شده