Finally Revealing my Short Gray Haircut

Please note that the sound will be much better next upload! Also, follow me on Instagram @Silverilocks and @TheUnbehaved for more social disobedience and in-your-face joy!

Music: White Rabbit
Musician: Silicon Estate


For the last couple years, I have been a silver hair influencer on Instagram and I grew my hair pretty long and worked with a few hair care brands. It was fun and I love the Silver Sister community, and I think I helped to encourage a few women through their gray hair transition as well as help women realize the gifts that come with middle age, which are profound if you can open your eyes to them. There is a lot of joy to be had when you become less defined by certain roles and defined by others and begin to rediscover yourself. It's like a 2nd childhood. And there is so much freedom and power in it.

Anyway, pro-age, pro-woman, and silver hair influencing was beginning to turn me off as it began to take a Kardashian turn. The last straw was when Roe V. Wade was overturned and I noticed that so many of my colleagues who used the hashtag #womensupportwomen had nothing to say about it.

I also don't really want to pressure women to buy things they don't really need because money is time and time is power and my goal here is to help you obtain all the power you can possibly gain by being the truest you.

I have a website at https://silverilocks.com where I write a ton of articles intended to help women socially recondition themselves in an empowering way where we trust ourselves and other women and want to be big and take up space in the narrative.