6 Types of School-Based Childhood Trauma
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In this video we cover:
In this video we cover: school, school abuse, bullying, bully, toxic teachers, pressure, fighting, intimacy conflict, empath, clairvoyant, triggers, toxic family systems, boundaries, truth, childhood trauma, inner child, inner child work, C-PTSD, PTSD, toxic parents, narcissistic abuse, healing, abusive parents, emotional abuse, childhood PTSD, repressed memories, hypervigilance, narcissistic parents, emotionally abusive parents, child abuse, narcissistic father, childhood emotional neglect, abuse, narcissistic mother, alcoholism, scapegoat, genogram, siblings, dissociation, trauma
Chapters and Journal Prompts:
0:00 Intro
03:38
Number 6: Crushes
1) Were you the apple of your parent’s eye? If no, could that be related to those crushes.
2) Were you in valid need of being valuable or lovable to someone…like in a deficit.
3)Did you long for maybe living in another home with them? Somewhere safe and more connected? Why?
06:41
Number 5: Not Getting Help – Just Expected to Perform
1) How were you parented if you struggled with grades and keeping up?
2) Do you currently have problems: starting things, believing that you’re dumb when that’s not true do you still hide and not ask for help academically or intellectually
3) What would have getting help about writing or math done for you in grammar school or high school? Would you have felt differently about yourself?
Side Note-help would have looked like, parenting and school discussions about resources for delays, learning disabilities, behaviors, without blame and shame around performance.
10:09
Number 4: Abusive Teachers
1) Would your parents believed you if you told them?
2) Do you struggle with the integrity of those in authority or power?
3) What did you need from your parents as well as the school specifically in terms of justice?
No one advocated for us.
12:12
Number 3: Teasing, Ridicule, and Vulnerability
1) How were you set up from home to be singled out in school for vulnerability?
(desperate to be accepted and loved – wanted to be popular? )
2) What did you need from a parent if they were safe about ridicule, teasing and vulnerability?
15:14
Number 2: Social Pressure
1) How would a healthy parent have guided and helped you through those school pressures and took them seriously?
2) What would have been good enough?
3) Who was responsible for how you had to hide and conform?
17:37
Number 1: Bullying
1) What did you need if you had healthy parents?
2) What did you need from the school?
3) Was it really about you even though it was so personal?
4) What did the bully get out of it and do you value that?
25:02 Final Thoughts
MUSIC IS BY - Chris Haugen - Ibiza Dream
Chris Haugen - Ibiza Dream
Learn more about Patrick Teahan,
Childhood Trauma Resources and Offerings
➡️ https://linktr.ee/patrickteahan
Editing service
https://www.jamesrara.com/
⚠️ Disclaimer
My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship.
If you are, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room.
If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline
1-800-273-8255
Chapters and Journal Prompts:
0:00 Intro
03:38
Number 6: Crushes
1) Were you the apple of your parent’s eye? If no, could that be related to those crushes.
2) Were you in valid need of being valuable or lovable to someone…like in a deficit.
3)Did you long for maybe living in another home with them? Somewhere safe and more connected? Why?
06:41
Number 5: Not Getting Help – Just Expected to Perform
1) How were you parented if you struggled with grades and keeping up?
2) Do you currently have problems: starting things, believing that you’re dumb when that’s not true do you still hide and not ask for help academically or intellectually
3) What would have getting help about writing or math done for you in grammar school or high school? Would you have felt differently about yourself?
Side Note-help would have looked like, parenting and school discussions about resources for delays, learning disabilities, behaviors, without blame and shame around performance.
10:09
Number 4: Abusive Teachers
1) Would your parents believed you if you told them?
2) Do you struggle with the integrity of those in authority or power?
3) What did you need from your parents as well as the school specifically in terms of justice?
No one advocated for us.
12:12
Number 3: Teasing, Ridicule, and Vulnerability
1) How were you set up from home to be singled out in school for vulnerability?
(desperate to be accepted and loved – wanted to be popular? )
2) What did you need from a parent if they were safe about ridicule, teasing and vulnerability?
15:14
Number 2: Social Pressure
1) How would a healthy parent have guided and helped you through those school pressures and took them seriously?
2) What would have been good enough?
3) Who was responsible for how you had to hide and conform?
17:37
Number 1: Bullying
1) What did you need if you had healthy parents?
2) What did you need from the school?
3) Was it really about you even though it was so personal?
4) What did the bully get out of it and do you value that?
25:02 Final Thoughts
MUSIC IS BY - Chris Haugen - Ibiza Dream
Chris Haugen - Ibiza Dream
Learn more about Patrick Teahan,
Childhood Trauma Resources and Offerings
➡️ https://linktr.ee/patrickteahan
Editing service
https://www.jamesrara.com/
⚠️ Disclaimer
My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship.
If you are, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room.
If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline
1-800-273-8255
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