Starfield: Why Going Through the Unity is a Horrible thing to do

I know the gamer crowd trends towards loners with few family connections, but the idea of abandoning everything you know for a chance to see another universe is really an edge case for most people.  The fact that everyone you know seems to be pushing you towards this makes it clear that either the story team thought this was a no-brainer, or they realized it was fraught with moral implications, and did everything they could to sweep them under the rug.

These are my thoughts, such as they are, on why my character wouldn't go through the Unity, at least not without a lot more preparation, and better reasons than, "it sounds like a cool thing to do." I apologize that my ADHD got the better of me a couple of times and I left thoughts unfinished.

Ramblings:
00:00 Intro/initial problems
01:44 The Spiderman Problem
03:45 Big Fallout 4 Tangent
04:55 Starfield again - Unfinished business
06:43 The need for a counter argument
08:43 Taking away the Competition of it all
11:48 Summing it up
12:58 Conversation with Sarah
14:53 Outro