Abusive Christian Marriage Book: "Love & Respect" | Ex-Fundie Library

This video is about an abusive fundamentalist christian marriage book I read while engaged called “Love and Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs. I share ways that its harmful messages negatively impacted me as a 21-year-old and contributed to the domestic violence in my family growing up. I also discuss the book’s strict gender roles and explain why I believe everyone of all genders need both love and respect in romantic relationships. Thanks so much for watching! Content Warning: This video includes discussions of domestic violence. [Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy] Purity to Polyamory podcast: open.spotify.com/show/25JHTaEXf0aCqQ4cCVbfev Purity to Polyamory instagram: www.instagram.com/puritytopolyamory/?hl=en “What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy?” By Ariane Resnick: www.verywellmind.com/what-is-ethical-non-monogamy-… “What Ethical Non-Monogamy Is and Isn’t” by Sian Ferguson, medically reviewed by Dr. Jennifer Litner: psychcentral.com/health/ethical-non-monogamy-polya… [Christian Criticism of Love & Respect] “Emerson Eggerichs Book Enables Abuse—Often Leading to Divorce | The Life-Saving Divorce” by Gretchen Baskerville:    • Emerson Eggerichs Book Enables Abuse—...   “Emerson Eggerichs Gaslighting Abuse Victims in a Sermon Series” by Shiela Wray Gregoire:    • Emerson Eggerichs Gaslighting Abuse V...   [Focus on the Family] Fundie Fridays video:    • James Dobson & Focus on the Family   My Purity Culture video:    • Being Raised in Purity Culture | Crus...   My Sexual Shame video:    • My First Kiss at the Altar & Vaginism...   [Timestamps] 00:00 - Introduction 00:55 - Marriage & Relationships 03:38 - Core Messages 10:00 - Gender Roles & “Differences” 15:46 - Patriarchal Hierarchy 20:29 - Authority & Abuse 26:36 - Friendship & Sexuality 31:14 - Go to therapy, Eggerichs 36:48 - Love & Respect for ALL [Background Music] Title: Warm www.hooksounds.com/ Image Description: Elly- white with brown eyes- is wearing a light purple sweater and her brown hair in a ponytail. She is sitting on her bed as she talks to the camera in front of a string of colorful holiday lights. There are screen shots and videos throughout the video that correspond to the content mentioned. #PurityCulture #ReligiousTrauma #Exvangelical #ExChristian

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