Upgrade Your Social Skills #1 - Reading | Milton H. Erickson
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We are the preeminent social
We are the preeminent social animal on the planet. Our survival and success depends on our ability to communicate and cooperate with others. And because of this, it's of utmost importance for us to understand people, especially the ones we are dealing with. We have to understand what they are thinking and feeling. What's driving them and what are their motivations. Otherwise, we risk hiring the wrong candidate, making the wrong friends, marrying the wrong person, or we risk being manipulated or deceived by those around us.
In this video, you are going to learn from the best reader of men and women that has ever lived -- Milton H. Erickson -- how to avoid all of that and how to take control of your social interactions.
This video is a summary of "The Laws of Human Nature"'s chapter on non-verbal communication.
"People tend to wear the mask that shows them of in the best possible light—humble, confident, diligent. They say the right things, smile, and seem interested in our ideas. They learn to conceal their insecurities and envy. If we take this appearance for reality, we never really know their true feelings, and on occasion, we are blindsided by their sudden resistance, hostility, and manipulative actions. Fortunately, the mask has cracks in it. People continually leak out their true feelings and unconscious desires in the nonverbal cues they cannot completely control—facial expressions, vocal inflections, the tension in the body, and nervous gestures. You must master this language by transforming yourself into a superior reader of men and women. Armed with this knowledge, you can take the proper defensive measures." - Robert Greene
The first song: Trio for Piano, Cello, and Clarinet by Kevin MacLeod
Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song...
License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b...
In this video, you are going to learn from the best reader of men and women that has ever lived -- Milton H. Erickson -- how to avoid all of that and how to take control of your social interactions.
This video is a summary of "The Laws of Human Nature"'s chapter on non-verbal communication.
"People tend to wear the mask that shows them of in the best possible light—humble, confident, diligent. They say the right things, smile, and seem interested in our ideas. They learn to conceal their insecurities and envy. If we take this appearance for reality, we never really know their true feelings, and on occasion, we are blindsided by their sudden resistance, hostility, and manipulative actions. Fortunately, the mask has cracks in it. People continually leak out their true feelings and unconscious desires in the nonverbal cues they cannot completely control—facial expressions, vocal inflections, the tension in the body, and nervous gestures. You must master this language by transforming yourself into a superior reader of men and women. Armed with this knowledge, you can take the proper defensive measures." - Robert Greene
The first song: Trio for Piano, Cello, and Clarinet by Kevin MacLeod
Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song...
License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b...
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